I 23F am feeling stuck with my bf M24 who smokes weed and craves it 24/7. How do I move forward?
RANT TIME
Long story short when we met, we both smoked but I was very adamant that I can't date a stoner. Its a preference as much as I wouldn't date someone who wasnt active and ate unhealthy. He told me he has his moments but.goes on 2-3 month breaks and if anything uses it for his anxiety that happens a few times a month. With that said we have been together for over a year and he will smoke as much as he has and once hes done it won't take long for him to start seeking it out. When he stops he gets very agitated and our communication skills go to shit. In the last week hes almost smoked half an ounce. We came to.an understanding on our vacation since there will.be so much to do we would.drop the weed for the meanwhile. I brought up that him smoking this much and on our vacation was hard for me. He said he was done once the weed was done. BUttttt his aunt visited who has a pen and lend it to him. He smoked it for the 2 days she was here and hit it like a nicotine addict....which in public was.super unattractive to me, let alone seeing him always seeking it out from her. I tried bringing it up again and he blew up saying he.doesnt want to hear another word about weed and he will smoke what he want whenever. Our relationship has been unsteady since but he keeps saying Im causing the problems and I dont know how to move forward.
I should add that this is especially hard for me because hes amazing in all the other ways and he struggles that this the closest thing to a deal break for our relationship I have and feels everything else he provides is invalidated.