Everyone wants a hookup or FWBs. One guy asked me to be his "femboy". I didn't want to change myself over a guy who clearly wants a girlfriend, he's even told me that he wants girlfriend. He wanted to get me heels and get my nails done, which I already paint my nails, I just dont wanna wear a dress, heels, makeup and have a wig on just for him lol.
at my favorite bar for an event. I think it's a rapping thing. vodka cranberry for me
I've got "no hookups" on my dating profiles. Except, it doesn't stop the men from asking about it. I mean, I've even had one guy ask to be my "sugar daddy", like wtf? How hard can it be to get a single date? 😅
I went Friday, Saturday, and now Sunday. My bartender friend told me they were having karaoke again, they had it for each day I've gone, so I HAD to go. lol.
I come here for my favorite drink at my favorite bar every Friday and Saturday. 😊
In the last month, I've had my ex tell me he isn't interested in dating or commitment after 4 months of seeing each other, then just yesterday the guy I met told me the same thing. What the actual hell is going on? Do people not want to let others in? I get the career stuff, you work 2 jobs, or the job you have has you working nearly 40 or more hours a week. But you can't let someone in to WANT to be with you? I'm so sick of this bullcrap, I am tired of wanting to love someone and support them, only to hear they can't share the same level of support. I'm a college student, I'm never going to be totally available, but I MAKE the time for the ones I care about. Dating SUCKS
I know this isn't exclusive to the gay community, but it feels so hard to make a genuine connection. I tend to lean towards as "straight passing", and every guy I meet or date ends up becoming just a friend. So I've tried things to make myself more feminine, even if I dont truly believe these are feminine traits. I dyed my hair pink in some parts, I painted my nails black, and even try to shift my body language. I feel like I'm not even myself anymore. It's made me realize I can't keep shifting myself to look more "gay" to attract anyone. I'm keeping the hair because I genuinely think it looks good, but I'm done changing myself just to fit the community. If a man comes along and genuinely likes me, so be it, I welcome it. My ex was at a bar a few nights ago, he walked up to me and said goodbye to me when he left out of nowhere, this caused some of the guys I was chatting with next to me be like "do you know that guy?", when I told them he was my ex, they were damn surprised lol.
Dating apps suck, I hate dating as a gay man. especially since everyone is so unfaithful. I joined a dating app last week after I got dumped, sort of a rebound kinda thing. I met someone, and they gave me their number. Since we both met last Friday, I haven't been on the dating app, I kinda wanted to show them I wasn't interested in looking around while we were texting. But, curiosity creeped in when he told me he was going to be out of town this weekend for work. I checked the app, and found out he was active and online. I felt like I was done, I'm tired of putting myself out there only to feel like I'm the only one actually trying. I liked this guy too, and I keep getting what the guy who dumped me was giving me. Breadcrumbs. Barely any communication. I'm so tired of this, why is this so hard? Why can't we just like each other in a deeper way that doesn't involve sex?