My friends are boring and I want to know what to do about it, please can I hear some thoughts?
I'm a female freshmen in high school so I made these friends this year. I'm kind of close to them, but often the conversation is boring. I know many others who are much more interesting and challenging in their banter who I get along with, but these girls just always revert back to the most boring topics. Don't get me wrong, we're teenage girls, but I don't like talking 24 7 about buying clothes and going shopping and tik tok. They're very generic people and express themselves physically very generically. They've also both done things to make themselves smart, but at the core may not be as smart as the exterior. I might be being too judgy but this is my impression after sleepovers, parties, track meets, lunch everyday, and classes. It's the end of the year though, and if I ditch them then I'll have no main friends in school, which is very necessary. I don't wanna start drama either. I don't enjoy hanging out with them much, but I keep doing it because without hanging out with them I would feel lonely and would be a loner They're fun once in a blue moon but it's just excruciating to talk to some of them. What I'm really asking is what can I do to make my life more interesting? Should I just power through and wait til next year and get new friends? Or what can I do to make our relationship more interesting right now? I just want general thoughts on the situation please.