u/Dangerous-Onion-7788

What are you all doing to make yourselves remain motivated?

I recently used a filter to make me look skinny (I know I will not look like this) everytime I'm about to eat something. I keep it in a note pinned to my home screen on my phone. (Edit: I mean like when I start looking at my door dash app sweating about ordering a double cheeseburger or some pizza when I meal prepped.) It sounds so shallow, but as a woman who recently got out of a relationship where I was encouraged to not change - I really wanna be hot.

I mean, I'm pretty, but I'm fat. And what's the problem anyways with doing it for vanity?

That and also, I haven't RAN since I was a kid. I want to get on a RIDE at the fair. I feel like I missed my early twenties because I was fat. And I want kids.

I want children. I want like...a partner. I know people will love me without a weightloss but I will not love me enough to trust them.

Plus, omg, Klay just cheated on Meg. MEGAN THEE STALLION??? Now I feel extra LESS secure.

Anyways. Do we have a discord? Where are we yapping as girls about weightloss?