u/Dangerous-Pride9684

I found out my boyfriend recently cheated on me while I was on a trip. We live together. Turns out when we first started dating he was seeing someone then and was cheating on them with me, which I had no idea until now. and now i'm the one being cheated on. I love him and am so heartbroken but I know I have to leave him.

So how do I do it? Do I leave a note, pack my things while he's at work, and just leave? Block him on everything ? Give him no opportunity to say anything?

Or Do I confront him and let him know I know what he did? We've been on and off for two years, and serious for 10 months (living together for 4 months). I want to be respectful of our relationship and of his feelings. I hate the idea of hurting him... even though he's seriously betrayed me. What's the mature and healthy route to take. What will be best for my mental health?

I found out my boyfriend cheated on me last week while I was out of town. We live together and i'm 9 weeks pregnant. It was with a senior in college. He's 40. Seems like he's been grooming her for a while. I haven't confronted him about it yet. Mostly because I found out by invading his privacy and I feel badly about that. Should we just break up and I say nothing? Do I confront him? Do I let this girl know that he lied to her and does have a girlfriend? Do I expose him?