u/DangerousCandy8803

I didn’t know what the term meant ago a few months back, but i’m extremely scared of being seen as one. I (cisgender, pansexual, 14f) got accused of being a chaser by my brother (transgender, 24m) because I said i think Jules from Euphoria is the prettiest character (I like her aesthetic) I think the reason why he said this was because I do listen to a lot of transfem artists (i like arca and jane remover and i think they are really cute and i talk about them a lot) and have interest in some youtubers too. I don’t inherently like them because they’re trans, i find my interest in them completely unrelated to them being trans. I’m so paranoid, and i feel like a gross creep because he said that. I feel really bad and i haven’t listened to some of my favorite music artists ever since, I’m so scared of being seen as a pervert. I do just like women in general. I did realize i find a lot of trans people very pretty too but that’s not limited to girls. I’m so scared of being weird or gross. I feel so disgusted that he said that, and i’m worried that i might be a ‘chaser’