AITA for selling the rest of my daughter's things?
I have 2 kids, 9 and 13. I have been the familys sole provider every since they were born. Since the age of 10, my now 13 year old started to be brainwashed by her mother after she kidnapped them to another city. She implanted so many lies about me and my mother.
Since I won custody back in 2023, my oldest daughter has told me to my face that she will do and say anything to get back with her mother and step-father. When her mother moved back, we shared 50/50 custody.
Mother had been arrested for DV towards our oldest child and arrested for DWI twice. Her husband has been arrested for thievery. I have been arrested for PI. So I know none of us are saints. But my daughter regularly calls ME an alcoholic.
Her mother's husband is 7 years older than her mother, and I am 6 years older than my wife. My daughter repeatedly calls me a pedophile and praises her stepfather in being older.
My daughter told her mother that I sexually assaulted her younger sister by washing her hair for her when she was 6. She's my child, and if she's not washing her hair correctly, I help her with it. Of course, cps was called and my wife and I were investigated for it.
After a 2 long court battle and 8 mediations later, my oldest goes to live with her mother. My youngest is still 50/50 and a complete daddy's girl. During our evening calls, when I'm talking to my youngest, I hear my oldest cuss at me, call me a loser, liar, etc. I stopped excersizing my right to speak to my youngest every night. Her mother can call and talk to her with no problem.
My oldest demanded that I take back all of her things including a rocking chair her aunt left for her. I took back about 90% of her things which included clothes, makeup, collectables, music and I would have to load up the rest including the rocking chair and her vanity.
After I dropped off her stuff she saw me outside and decided to flip me off.
I'm done with the disrespect and her mother claims to "promote a relationship" Is what she told the counselor and psychiatrist for the court but I know behind closed doors they're laughing and high fiving for the disrespect. Her mother tells me "well I can't control her" as if she has no authority to punish or set things straight with our daughter.
Am i the asshole for asking her aunt if she wants her rocking chair back? If not, I'm going to give it away.
I bought her her vanity so I will just sell that too along with the rest of her things.