u/Dangerous_Diet_256

Ive know this person for years and never question such behavior. I’ve always been passive and always laughed at their behavior. Then one day I felt almost annoyed how “self centered“ they were. If there was plans it was always ” I don’t like that but yall can” However they never had input on what to do. If they did, it’s always what the wanted to do because everyone will bend to their opinion. Had no passion to do anything with their life. I’ve always been empathetic and never been in other people shoes of their sometimes harsh words. All my life ive been silent to make sure I don’t “annoy them” so I’ve been some what I guess “safe”. I have never tried to think too much on it or I think I get too emotional because I’m always trying to make others happy. Im trying to not care but I feel like that emotion still comes back. How can I make myself less caring of the situation? I feel like a spiral sometimes 😭 and it feel one sided.