u/Dangerous_Garden4600

Hi 45m guessing I'm asking for advice I've recently told this girl/friend I know 44f that I like her and have a crush on her and would she like to go out some time, the answer wasn't a definite no I'm not interested in you! But more along the lines as of she's not looking for a relationship at the moment,( could justd be a polite way of saying no i guess?) But its her birthday next week and i was thinking of buying her flowers and a couple of gimmicky items, is this ill advised or let's justd roll with it.