u/Dangerous_Reply1408

Hi,

So Me and my gf are now in 7 yrs of relationship and now mostly in ldr for the past 4-5 years. She is best for me in every aspect, but for some years our sex drive has become nill.

She doesn't like to even talk about it, even when we meet we just cuddle and go to sleep.

I on the other hand have a very high sex drive and i masturbate without telling her anymore. it's just a silent thing now. We won't talk abt it anymore and its eating me away. Sexual cheating thoughts have come to my mind so many times.

I don't know how to take it, we are going to marry soon. I thought after marriage things will get resolved but will it. Or it will be hard.

Any suggestions?