u/DaniTheKid00011

I [M17] want to talk this girl I met at a birthday party but she just went through a breakup

I met this girl through a mutual friend of ours at his birthday party. I thought she was pretty and she caught my attention. I thought she was fun to be around with and she just had an overall positive aura. The party involved alcohol, we didn't get drunk, but we got tipsy enough that we got to interact with each other. We hit it off, and she was pretty close to me physically most of the time even though we haven't met each other. It was like she was already comfortable with me and it made me a bit nervous at the time. Then I overheard her tell to one of the people she knew at the party that she and her boyfriend had broken up.

After the night, we followed each other on Instagram and we messaged for a bit. I haven't spoken to her since. I also found out we go to the same school. Currently, I'm at a dilemma on whether I should just talk to her or let my feelings pass since she and her boyfriend had just broken up. Although, I don't know how long they have been apart, but I'm assuming it's recent.

Edit: I already have a trauma about dating people that still isn't over their exes. This should have been a no brainer for me to not to continue it, but something about her that night made me want to try to talk to her.

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u/DaniTheKid00011 — 10 days ago