u/DankLlama43

I’m 19M and i have a brother also 19m, we both have a history of selfharm and my sister is kinda traumatized about it, she’s 11 and she’s insanely sensitive and recently she has been glorifying our self harms in ways, such as pretending they’re guitar strings and she asked my brother a scary question. “What did you use to cut yourself?”.
my brother said “you’re crazy, i’m not telling you that.” and she asked why and etc. but he never told her, she always talks about seeing people with selfharm scars and people from our local library having scars, she asks me “does this person have scars” or “does this person?” etc and today she came home and said “one my classmates had huge scars on her legs, like huge and fresh”
then my sister said “I did it once but it was very very light”
boom, me and my brother were just playing cuphead and having a blast, now we are both PISSED, not at her, but at anything else, we’re mad at society, mad at ourselves, we are actually so mad and we feel like it is our faults, she looks up to us, ofc she’s gonna want to do it too, our scars are old though and we told her how much we regret it and as for society, she’s surrounded by kids wearing pride shit and cuts all over them, our area is really.. prideful if you will. so shr mimics everyone around her and so now she wears rainbows, she has emotional support stuffed animal, now she tells me she cut herself once??
me and my brother are terrified, were pissed at the world and ourself and we are terrified, we don’t want her getting into this mess like we did, i’m terrified of her ruining her life just because she thinks it’s cool

i used to make achievements for myself when i was cutting, like “cut to this layer” or “attempt suicide” and i wanted to reach those achievements, i’m so scared she will be the same, she glorifies all this shit i don’t want her to cut

basically what i’m asking is if any of you have tips? especially girls since you’re more likely to know the mind of an 11 year old girl, i really REALLY want to prevent this, and my brother does too, we’re both currently sitting in silence next to each other
any advice or suggestions would be so helpful
help prevent my 11 year old sister from getting into this cutting addiction please

been working on my muscle for a little while like a month or two pretty consistently and i went from a 65 lbs 3*12 bench to benching 90 lbs 8-6-4 reps and i can’t post any pics here but idk if i’m actually filling out or if i’m still a twink as ppl used to call me that, i still feel like that one pic where the dude says “feel better princess?” 🫠
also any advice or workout suggestions would be greatly appreciated