Past matters to me. How shall I approach without offending?
I ain't attractive or ugly. The same old tones of sheep that go into AM, as it's india.
The problem with me, is that to feel something genuine, I feel like I want a girl with a clean past. I'm 25, looking, for 23-26 yo girls. I'm Introverted, decently good looking but minus is I'm 171 cm, so around average/short. My salary is decent. A Working girl or someone pursuing a career is fine to me.
So I'm talking to this girl right. She's my good, in most things. So anyways I asked about her past and she told me, there was something but it's too early in the process to share. The environment was okay according to her till then. Then I said, "if she has had a significant thing in her past (relationship/ONS whatever) then it's a no from me. We might as well be wasting time"
She got offended and told me I've destroyed the vibe. Now I'm completely done with this prospect. But since she's a family friend's daughter my parents told me to "reconsider".
I'm gonna reject the rishta anyways. But my question is how do I put forward the question, without offending girls? It's important to me, I don't wanna feel like a backup option when their career / relationship didn't workout.