u/DarkLunaBloom

I have a question for ALL.

Why do some people refuse to learn sign language when they’re dating someone whose family is Deaf or has multiple generations of Deaf relatives? What’s the reason?

And I don’t understand how hearing parents can have Deaf children and not learn sign language. Early access to a full language is critical for Deaf kids and without it, it can seriously affect their communication, learning and development long-term..

To me, if someone you’re building a life with has a Deaf family or if your own child is Deaf, learning sign language should be a priority. It’s basic communication. I just can’t wrap my head around refusing to learn the language of the people you love.

I want real answers from both Deaf and hearing people. No excuses. Just honest reasons.

Thought of the day: would you stay at a well-paying job if it was messing with your mental health and making you unhappy or would you leave? I know it’s ideal to have something lined up first but in a serious situation… what would you do?