u/Dark_Arts7

I 18(f) Have been with my bf 18(m) for roughly three years with a period in between that we had split apart. Within the beginning of our relationship he had briefly introduced me to his sister during a Christmas celebration. We were decorating gingerbread houses and had a relatively pleasant time. Though, whenever she had came over she didn’t introduce herself- anything? Instead she stated “Ew.. I hate emos”. Which at the time I dressed more alternatively. In addition to this she also states that she “Hates women”. Both of these statements also applied to her? For context both my bf and his father are more right leaning, potentially meaning she just wanted to appeal to them by putting me down. She ignored me completely and didn’t include me in activities. Time as passed and my bf has stated that his sister “hates me”. This is once we came back together after breaking up for a few months. I thought this was hypocritical because she did the same thing with her then ex now current bf. Today we had the discussion of who he is inviting and I requested not to sit next to her as I don’t want hours of tension and want to just focus on him. To this I had been scolded and told to grow up. Why do I get scolded and not her? Mind you she had hardly ever been in his life up until the past couple of years and is 2-3 years older than us. I never requested that she was not invited just that there is some room between us.