So tonight, I’m realizing that these insecurities will never go away, I can either deal with them, and tip toe around it for the rest of my life or have a conversation that’s I know won’t end well.
Ok now to the situation that happened earlier.
I shared an old picture of myself to a group chat that I have with my hockey team.
So in turn some people shared their old pics as well.
One girl shared a pic of her a few years back wearing a boxing outfit for Halloween.
I said
“Are those Boxing gloves?
Looks like you’re going to kick someone’s ass”
Not even anything close to what would be considered flirtatious.
But I get a text message from her shortly after
Saying
“I hate how you gush over her”
Which I absolutely do not understand.
There has been nothing in the past between her and I. She is just a friend I play hockey with.
But for some reason every girl I talk to is a threat to her.
Then I get these messages from her like I did something wrong.
Now she won’t talk to me. She made some excuse that she is going to bed
But This isn’t new.
I’ve dealt with this for a few years now. I usually get really upset because I’ll defend myself, but I will always be told by her that i’m making excuses.
It will turn into a huge argument, but I don’t anymore energy for it anymore.
Can I get any advice from people that have any experience with this.
Thank you