Sex Only Sometimes Feeling Good?
As a woman, I generally only orgasm from clitoral stimulation, but sometimes when having sex with my partner it feels AMAZING. Like maybe I could orgasm from penetration/I understand how some women can.
I first experienced it during cowgirl (but lying on his chest), and so we did that a lot because it was so good. But then it started going back to “normal” (feeling “it” but not feeling pleasure exactly?) I have also occasionally gotten it from missionary. It also seems to be random, with some days being normal and others being great. But it’s been months since we’ve had sex (riding or otherwise) that felt like that, and I miss it 😢. It’s not the biggest deal to me, but it would be great to be on the same level as him during intercourse.
To note: We generally always do foreplay (making/eating out, mutual masturbation, fingering, etc.) and we have great communication, so while ofc me being aroused would play a part in the feeling of sex, we have had sex while I’ve been really turned on and it still feels like nothing.
I was wondering if anyone else has experienced this and if anyone has worked out a way to make sex be awesomesauce more often. Thank you!!
Also a bonus question: Do others struggle with things going from feeling great to meh within a few minutes of the act (sex or eating out or anything else)?