u/DaydreamerDamned

Image 1 — Finally comfortable sharing this manifestation
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Finally comfortable sharing this manifestation

I made this card very shortly after getting my first positive test, before any ultrasound. I'm currently almost 29 weeks pregnant with identical twin girls. I don't often practice manifestation, so I still truly don't know if it was me calling this into reality or if I just had some innate knowledge, but it's still pretty damn cool. I don't remember the exact phrase I used for my sigils, but they're embedded in the art.

My girls, Avery and Vera, are due Dec 24, but will likely be here a bit early between Nov 12 and Nov 25. Wishing them a healthy delivery and hopefully no (or minimal) NICU time 🙏🏻

u/DaydreamerDamned — 9 days ago

How did you handle taking time off for appointments?

I work in retail. My availability is already getting slashed because of my partner's new work schedule, so I will only be available 4hrs (realistically 3) per day. Now I have been informed I'll need to see the doctor every 1-2 weeks, and my job requires at least 3 weeks' notice for any requested time off.

I was told by management that I will need to find someone to cover every single one of these days that come up because they will still count towards my absences otherwise.

So far, with changing my availability, I'm thinking about leaving Mondays and Thursdays blank so I can potentially schedule appointments on those days - but there's still a chance those days conflict with my partner's schedule week to week. They have to have open availability and can't really request off as easily as I can, both because we need the money and because their workplace just generally isn't as lenient. Their schedule updates weekly, so we generally don't know their off-days until last minute.

The real kicker is that they're my ride for everything. There are busses, but they can arrive and drop you off within an hour of the scheduled time. We have one car and I don't have a license yet (long story). Our car is also not drivable for me - it lacks power steering, can't be ran with AC without it dying, etc. (We are working on a replacement, but it will take some time.)

Getting another job is unfortunately out of the question since this is the only place that reliably hires nearby, and one of the only places I can walk to/from in a pinch.

So... what do I do? Any advice welcome.

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u/DaydreamerDamned — 4 months ago

11 week update

Finally got in with our official OB at 10w+6! Heard their heartbeats for the first time, and saw them wiggle around! Baby A, who was way down low originally, found their way up. Now they're directly side-by-side, and our original Baby A may now be our Baby B lol. Baby A was measuring slightly behind, now it's the other way around.

We were also super relieved to see their separating membrane during this appointment, so we're officially in the mo-di camp.

Next week we'll be able to do the NIPT, which I'm super nervous and excited for 😅

u/DaydreamerDamned — 4 months ago

Baby A found super low, near cervix (8w+6)

New here, I've been lurking since we found out there were two a couple weeks ago. As the title says, I'm at 8wks 6 days. Baby A is super low and cramped, right next to my cervix, meanwhile Baby B has all the space in the world.

I'm just wondering if anyone else had a similar experience early on. Did yours migrate out of that space? Did you feel a lot of lower abdomen or even cervix pain or pressure? What was positioning like as your pregnancy progressed?

Thanks in advance, looking forward to hearing your experiences 🫶🏼

u/DaydreamerDamned — 5 months ago

Trying to find my mom in the Pensacola area

Her name is Heather. She's 50 years old, 5'8, and has a brown dog named Tucker. She has greying blonde hair and blue eyes. She doesn't have a car. This may be a longshot, I'm just hoping anyone might know something. It's been 41 days since her phone was last charged enough for me to see her general location on Life360. I plan to post on Facebook too, but I don't know how successful that will be.

I want to get her somewhere safe and I really want to tell her about my pregnancy - she's going to be a grammie to twins and she'll be so excited. She would never intentionally stop talking to me. I miss her so much. If you know anything, please let me know.

EDIT: SHE HAS BEEN FOUND! Someone showed her my Facebook post and she was able to get in contact with me. I am SO relieved.

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u/DaydreamerDamned — 5 months ago