Am I making a mistake meeting a guy after 1 year of online dating?
BF (31) and I (35F) have been together a year. We’re international - he’s from Canada, I’m from US. It’s been a year of online dating and we never met.
I’ve been waiting on him to get his passport and it just came in today. He has been unemployed and Ive been nagging him (feels awful) to figure out work and to figure out passport since Oct 25’. Nothing has changed besides the passport (7 months later).
I understood id have to cover the cost of his visit to me. Today, he asks me for money for arrangements to get to airport because he wants to do an uber/direct route to the airport - which is really expensive. I sent him routes he can take that are more cost effective and he told me i should’ve waited to book the flight. I booked it with a 4 week lead time so it’s not crazy expensive. I feel so angry that he is just now looking into how to get to me and is blaming the inconvenience on me. And the fact he needs money to get to the airport. I feel so disrespected to the point I’m contemplating canceling the trip and the meetup altogether. I feel like he doesn’t care about my financial wellbeing and hasn’t put any effort to figure out how this relationship will work since we are international. Am I making a mistake letting this go now?