u/Dazzling_Cricket8218

I (30 dx unmedicated) have been browsing this sub Reddit for a while now and it's really given pause for though. I've actively started self improving at least a year ago because of reasons separate or I so thought) to my ADHD turns out the clinginess I have always exhibited is directly linked to my ADHD and not made better by the fact I have GAD. I've always been told since I wasn't bouncing off the walls like my brother that I didn't medication but have for the last several months been seriously considering starting on to path to getting them.

I just wanted to sincerely thank everyone here though, The ADHD related content on here and other social media is blindingly positive but often doesn't give tips on how to improve ones symptoms.

seeing ADHD referred to in such honest NT's lenses often by people who have tried being supportive and understanding of partners often for years if not a decade or more. Makes me realise just what my mother had dealt with as the only NT person in the home.

It was this sub that taught me about RSD and now I understand why during perceived conflict I go quiet and shut down. and Have real trouble talking things out during a conflict. and know I understand what that is I can start tackling it and working on it.

Now the pre-ambles over my question

Why have I seen people talking about this sub like it's a hate group?

I truly don't get it.

Personally I think the concept of confronting someone who ghosted you is a waste of time I don;t understand why I'm seeing people encourage this idea bemuses me greatly, The person who ghosted you doesn't care about you, why do you confronting them is going to do anything other than annoy someone who doesn't want you in their life.

Ghosters move on quickly from you because they were not interested in you, they've porbably found someone they actually like and demanding shit from them because your feelings got hurt by them sometimes months ago isn't going to yield the result you were looking for.