u/Dazzling_Particular1

I am 42 and have recently realized I have every perimenopause system there is. The mood swings, anxiety, fatigue and not sleeping are making my life miserable. I have been to the ob twice and was finally given a low dose bcp. I had to force that out of my Dr. I also have thyroid disease which has been controlled for years and anxiety/depression. Ob blamed all of my symptoms and those things. My question is, how do I get a Dr to listen to me and do bcp actually work? I am desperate!