u/Dazzling_Ratio_2093

i need an opinion. my girlfriend has been a kpop fan for years and i dont like how obsessed she is. the part that makes me uncomfortable is when they watch kpop music videos or performance online and replay the shirt ripping part over and over saying how hot each one is any calling them their mans or my man. theres been some times where i just walk out because in my mind its disrespectful to call another guy your man. am i in the wrong here or am i just insecure or toxic