Keep in mind she is a bigot
She keeps telling me stuff like
"you'll meet the right girl eventually"
"I was nervous the first time I had sex too"
"I was a virgin at your age"
(did you seriously need to tell me these? I feel disgusted even knowing now, i'm 19M btw)
"asexual is just afraid of pussy" (bigotry)
Simply put: Tinder is an app for allos.
I am not one of them.
Fucking tired of this at this point.
Considering trying to refund or chargeback (I don't give a fuck if I get banned from Tinder)
It's not normal my mom wants me to find a sexual partner this much is it? https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/s/PMe27QPTj2
19M
As I've talked about before, I'm 19M asexual and refuse to have sex at all. (I had an opportunity to lose my virginity I denied, my ex broke up with me because we never had any sex)
(FYI IM NOT ABOUT TO HAVE SEX)
Though, all the asexual girls I am friends with who had sex all told me the same thing:
it hurt real bad
How true is this?
Would it be weird to have both of us lie to her parents?
Especially her bigoted right winged dad...
She doesn't care about sex whatsoever and thinks its overrated so I might have a shot here!!
19M btw
I a few months ago broke up with my girlfriend (18M at the time, she was 19F), I currently am 19M.
She wanted sex, but I didn't. She said she was fine with an asexual partner, but maybe she changed her mind.
I felt bad at times, but sex scares me. My asexual friends (mostly female, I don't meet many fellow asexual cis men) who have had sex all said they hated it and or it hurt really bad.
Is there any way to meet an asexual female who will tolerate no sex?
I’m really upset and need to vent.
My mom has now offered twice to hire me a prostitute because she thinks I’m “missing out” and because she doesn’t take seriously that I’m asexual. She thinks it’s a phase or that it’s in my head.
The first time already upset me. This second time she brought it up in a really cheerful / “I’m helping you” way and even said a lot of people my age would think she’s being a cool parent.
But from my side it felt insulting and dismissive, because I’ve already said I don’t want this. I’m not asking for help getting sex. I’m not asking to be convinced. I’ve said no.
I got really angry and ended up needing space because I felt like what I was saying about myself wasn’t being heard at all.
I’m not contacting because I want to do anything dangerous — I’m overwhelmed, hurt, and I want someone to talk to.
EDIT: IM 18 ABT TO BE 19