My husband has been more loving since my heart attack.
Hello everyone, I hope it's a good day. I 41 F have been married to my husband 28 M for 3 years. I had been dumped by an ex who was cheating on me the whole time. I moved out of my ex's house and into an apartment. There was a gas station company I worked for next door to my apartment. I had asked to transfer to the store and was transferred about a day later. My first day working at the new store I met the new assistant manager. His first day too. My now husband. My husband was amazing. He was a sweetheart and he knew I have medical problems. We didn't start dating right away, it was about 2 months later, and he had been promoted to a manager and was put at a different store. He's in the army and I understood he had to leave sometimes for training. We got married before he had to go to California for a month long training. When he came back though, he was not my husband. He started calling me names, and treatment was hell.
3 days before he was scheduled to leave I had a surgery on my foot. Back in 2019 I was in a hot air balloon accident during the 2019 Albuquerque Balloon Fiesta. I had broke my toe. I was told for 3 years it was sprained. Turns out it had been broken in 3 places and could not be fixed. I had to have the bone taken out and a metal implant put in place. He treated me with love and help. When he came back though he didn't help me at all.
His sister ended up getting a divorce 6 months after we had gotten married. He then started saying he wanted a divorce. he started to realize how he was treating me and started to be a little nicer. Not as nice as he used to be, but he still was sweet and loving.
Fast forward 2 years. His best friend got a divorce. He started hanging out a lot with him and another friend of his. Both M and again treating me like shit. In March of 2025 I had asked him if he was cheating on me. He said he wished he was. Now, I have children myself. Adult children. My daughter is one that will not let anyone talk badly to me even though she knows I can hold my own. I had told her what happened and she called him and yelled at him. He got upset and moved out. He's been away for a year now, and we still hang out and stuff but he says he wants the divorce. Come our 3 year anniversary and he asked me what I wanted. I told him I wanted the divorce papers. He didn't want to get it. He always has an excuse.
Now for my heart attack. In April 2026 I had a heart attack and was told I died for about a half hour. I don't remember anything so it's whatever they tell me I guess. My husband has been acting like I'm his wife. He hasn't acted the way he is now for 2 years. He has been getting upset if I can't go see him. Since my heart attack I had to move back to a small town with my dad and brothers. while he lives in the city about 40 miles away. I can take the train there, but my dad and brothers who have taken care of me for the last month are still worried about me and wouldn't let me go till yesterday. I had a lot of fun, but my dad and brothers were worried about me. I had stayed the night with my husband. My husband has medical training and he lives a mile away from a hospital. I keep telling him I want the divorce. He keeps telling everyone it's me that doesn't want the divorce. What should I do. I love my husband, I just don't think it's fair to me to not have my husband around.