u/Decent-Decision-9028

This is just advice to anyone thinking they'll get somewhere with the "girls" on here. I'm telling you these kind of ppl come with a huge bag of mental problems and will never meet anybody in real life to share a genuine interest, theyll just keep tagging you along leading you on from one chat app to another and playing violin with your heart strings. Just stay away and find someone in real life to serenade you.

If you are a guy and stuck, here’s some advice:
- if you’re looking for something serious; do something you genuinely interested in: sport training sessions, gym classes, chess whatever it’s, just go to have a good time not to pick up someone and eventually that will lead you to find people that genuinely share the same interests etc..

- if you’re looking for hookups, go to bars, coffee shops and shopping. Practice your game, and it’s okay to get rejected. Be respectful and always respect boundaries. A no is no, you’re not there to make a catch every time. You’re there to practice. Keep that in mind.

Level up! Uninstall shitty apps that are full of scammers, catfish bots and mentally ill people.

Best of luck, have a great day! Adios!

Okay so it’s my first time posting to this sub, I honestly was confused when I found out about this! Reddit somehow recommended this to me 3 months ago and since then, I was reading posts here frequently out of curiosity. Anyway, looks like this sub doesn’t work for shit! So to test that out, I’d like to invite you to engage in comments on why this is the weirdest subreddit for dating and why it spooks you to not to engage! And if you do, share your experience, is it worth it ? Or should we go back to going to bars and ask strangers out? I personally find that much more effective! Peace & love.

You! Yes you, reading this, you’re worthy, you’re loved and every day that passes by is a better day because you exist in someone’s life.

Pain passes, hardship never lasts but your impact does. Keep going my friend, it might feel lonely at times and unbearable at others but the day passes by. Never judge yourself by the outcome of a single day. Keep going keep laughing, keep living! You’re worthy. Peace and love!