u/DeepDarq

Tech lovers. You are SO valid. I am not saying you aren't. Hell, I technically qualify as techum myself.

BUT GODS! I see you everywhere.

I YEARN for a good objectum focused Discord server to be a part of and find community in. But all that I ever find is techum-centric or techum only stuff.

SIIIIGH.

Man. At this point, I might make an all-inclusive objectum server myself. /hj

Edit: I worded this very poorly. Know that there is NOTHING wrong with being techum. Being in a largely representated part or this community is not bad. Be proud of what you love. As someone on this subreddit once told me, "Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."

Been a while! (^_^")

Recently I've been kind of scared to talk about my attraction and relationships in terms of me being objectum. Mostly because I feel like I'll be rejected by the objectum community, even if that's a wrong assumption.

I think that the objects that I hold affection for are both human and object in a way. Every time I think about the objects I love, I think of a humanoid form AND their object form. Like that's the image they're giving me.

And I know what you're thinking. "How are you objectum if they're humanoid in your head?"

But I love their object forms too. They identify as object and humanoid. And I love both facets of them.

The only person I have met that sees things this way is my brother.

All I'm asking is if this still qualifies as objectum in your eyes.

♡ Welcome to Redamancy! ♡

We are a 16+ (unless a month until) 'kin and system server.

This server is meant to be built like a yumeship server (the tag is just for reach) but for 'kin and systems ONLY to talk about their loved ones from source, memories, in-system/headspace. Whatever it may be.

This is a space for YOU to be comfortable. A place for YOU to talk about those relationships without any policing that yume servers would have on your identity.

My offer to everyone:
❤︎⁠➜ Easy verification.
❤︎⁠➜ TupperBox and Pluralkit.
❤︎⁠➜ Pro-good faith identities and contradictory labels.
❤︎⁠➜ No one's getting kicked for their source, being doubles, or who they are a fictive and/or 'kin of.
❤︎⁠➜ NO BLACKLIST.
❤︎⁠➜ Tolerance of more topics than most servers (as long as they're censored properly and put in the correct channels).

My offer to specifically systems:
❤︎⁠➜ No judgement based on anyone's system experience or origin. Be it with trauma, without, or mixed origin.
❤︎⁠➜ A system-specific category.
❤︎⁠➜ A non-system owner who is trying its hardest to accommodate and be welcoming to systems by consulting systems for help.
❤︎⁠➜ A promise that the owner will try its best to learn and take your input on how to make this place feel even more safe.

My offer to specifically 'kin:
❤︎⁠➜ No judgement based on anyone's 'kin experience or identity.
❤︎⁠➜ A 'kin-specific category.
❤︎⁠➜ An owner who is part of your community and understands what you may want out of a server.

Kindly leave:
☹︎➜ Younger than 16 (unless a month or less away).
☹︎➜ Neither 'kin nor system.
☹︎➜ Encourages actively harmful behaviors or people.
☹︎➜ Doesn't respect people's boundaries.
☹︎➜ Bigot/unaccepting/close minded.
☹︎➜ Systems that don't respect 'kin.
☹︎➜ 'Kin who don't respect systems.
☹︎➜ Factkin.
☹︎➜ Harmful transIDs
☹︎➜ Radqueer labels

♡ Hope to see you there. ♡
♡ With love, Redamancy. ♡

https://discord.gg/rE9UACRPFs

The term F/O has always made me feel so sad and detached from the people I knew and loved. After all, this insinuates they're FULLY fictional to me when they're not. Not to mention, it is phrased like S/O or Significant Other, even though it's used for any relationship one had.

I am rejecting this term and using one that makes me so much happier.

Loved One(s).

If you see me around, I will likely be using the term L/O or L/Os in my posts from now on. Because they are my loved ones. Platonic, familial, or romantic.

I'm not expecting anyone to use this. Using this term is fully self-serving.

I joined a kin server. Everything was going well. I was doing a what I needed to do, reading the rules, etc.

But then a rule basically said, "Absolutely NO mention of Pokémon ANYWHERE in the server, even if censored."

Like...What???

They didn't even put a WHY! Just "This is non-negotiable. Don't ask about it."

If you're going to put a ridiculous rule like that in a kin server where people joining COULD be kin of Pokémon, you should at least give us a reason. It isn't fair to people. And if it's a personal trigger or something, why are you making a server just to push that trigger/boundary onto others?

It just made me feel icky. Like this server was being sensitive over one media to the point of not even explaining the WHY! Communication!

Am I rude for being this upset about it? On some AITA type of thing. Hahah...

I posted the first chapter of my Izuku Midoriya memory fic to AO3 yesterday.

I'm very proud of myself. It takes guts to air out my past to the public. However, I know this will help me.

No. I will not post the fic link here, as I do not wish for hate. The fic also gets extremely dark, and I don't wish for judgement when they're MY memories.

If you truly want to read it, DM me.

Moving on.

I'm so happy to be getting it all out. It makes me feel seen. Thank you all for making me feel comfortable with this identity of mine and making this possible.

I'm 20 (turning 21 in September). I don't mind minors and adults alike talking to me. I would prefer at least 15+ to interact. Minus that, please be aware of my age and only interact if you are comfortable. (I get really scared of making people feel uncomfortable or unsafe.)

Now that that's out of the way. Hi. My preferred name at the moment is Mini due to my Intern kintype being named as such. Although, River is fine too as my this life name.

BYI: I'm spiritual/past life fictionkin. I have many kintypes (150+) and get a lot of memories, which I love talking about. I get frequent shifts. I am autistic and value direct communication in a friendship for it to work. I WANT FRIENDS. If you just want to say hi in the comments, do so. But if you want an actual conversation and even long-term friendship, DM ME! (Even if you don't kin from Animal Hospital, check out my pronouns.cc in my profile.)

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With all that out of the way, I've been shifted on and off (mostly on) since I've kinfirmed Mini. (It might be a fluxpermashift.)

I miss a lot of people. Especially my Secret Agent, Ron, Ratthew, Security, and Secretary (sheep). (All of which had actual names in my canon.)

If anyone remembers me, I'd love to talk.

I am not scared to say that I LOVE gacha. No, not the gambling games. I'm talking Gacha Life 2 and all the reaction videos people make for YouTube.

For the LONGEST time, I've wanted to make reaction videos. I've only ever made ONE. But it was amazing.

Now, I realize I can make videos based on my canons. I can make videos just how I remember things and put it out into the world. It sounds cringe, but I genuinely don't care.

The only thing that scares me is the idea of openly stating that the video is based on my fictionkin memories.

But I want to share my story in an entertaining way. You know?

I am so happy! And so excited and EEEEEEE!!!!

I am stimming so much.

Hi. My highest kintype is Izuku Midoriya. And I've been remembering so much that I needed to put my energy SOMEWHERE!

So I thought, what better way to get it out than to write a fanfiction and maybe even post it to AO3?

This is also technically F/O related. I just feel like it's the ultimate respect towards my loved ones that I had to honor them this way. To write our memories out where others can see and acknowledge that we existed.

This past life is everything to me.

I'm lucky that I at least have my canonmate for Kacchan. I am taking him along for the ride and not just writing this for myself but for him.

A momento. A way to remember what we've been through.

An I love you to those we no longer have.

I've been on r/FictKinYumeSource

It's been fun, but there's very little people there. So this post is meant to kind of be an ad of sorts.

I want people to talk about the people they remember.

I want to see that. I want to respond and get responses on that subreddit.

So if anyone here wants to gush about the people they remember and anything related to it, maybe check the subreddit out?

Fluxpermashift is when a kintype is nearly a permashift but has periods of time where that fluctuates.

For the most part, someone whose kintype is fluxpermashift is always shifted, but there will be lesser periods of time where they are not. This could last varying amounts of time before the shift is back.

As the name suggests, it's fluctuating (flux) but almost always acts as a permashift.

[Not to be confused with permashiftflux, which is when you're always shifted but said shift fluctuates in intensity.]

It's something that would be very close to permashift but not quite.

You see, sometimes I have kintypes that are ALMOST permashifts but have those moments where I'm not shifted. I'm never permashifted. But I have these really high kintypes that are ALMOST always shifted. Like there's periods pf time where I'm not shifted that could last varying amounts of time before it's back to acting like a permashift.

If this doesn't exist, I should probably coin it.

I posted my first video on my alterhuman/fictionkin youtube channel!

I'm very happy about it.

It's nothing much. Just an introductory short before I get into the meat of what what my channel is for.

(Ie. talking about my gear, talking about my experience with my alterhumanity, defining alterhuman terms for others, posting funny alterhuman art/edits, etc.)

Hey! I made an Alterhuman youtube channel. And I'm very excited about it. I want it to be a place where I am just my cringey self without fear. You know?

The help I need is simple.

What do I post?

What interests this community about fictionkin and alterhumanity in general?

What channel would you personally subscribe to?

I want my channel to be a great place for a great community, you know?