How to initiate as a dom, and keep it going? (nervous, inexperienced)
Hey, all
I am relatively new to the practical side of kink, and have only had one prev. partner so far, who was very (shall we say) dominant about initiating). Now, I've found new play partners, but I am a little scared/nervous about how to initiate in a natural way (meaning how you go from just being normal around each other towards being dominant/submissive). I guess what it boils down to is that even though I want to be dominant, I am scared of freezing up or not knowing what to do and thus disappointing my sub.
I realise this sounds like a total newbie question, but I just struggle with letting my inner dominant out for fear of "not doing it right", if that makes sense. It's the best way I can explain it.
I can sub very well, but since we are both switch, I believe in reciprocating :-)
Any help or advice is appreciated:-D