Has anyone manifested meeting their online SP in real life?
Hi everyone, I feel like I need some outside perspective because I’m a bit stuck with my SP situation.
I’ve known my SP for around 6 years. It’s been very on and off, mostly online, and there have been periods of contact, silence, reconnecting, and complicated dynamics. Recently, we were talking, but now I’m blocked in one place (although there was still contact elsewhere before).
The thing is - I genuinely want this relationship. I want him to come see me, I want a real relationship, commitment, and honestly, I even imagine those small things like him showing up with flowers and us finally being together for real.
What confuses me is that my self-concept is actually high in most areas of life. I know my worth. I’ve dated other people, gone on dates, received flowers, attention, effort - but it just never felt right. I always found myself comparing it to what I feel for him.
I recently read Neville Goddard and I really do believe assumptions and beliefs matter. I know I probably still have limiting beliefs specifically around this SP situation, because this is the one area where I feel emotionally triggered and less secure.
I guess my question is:
Has anyone here successfully changed deep beliefs around an SP situation that felt “stuck”? Especially after a long history, mixed signals, blocks/no contact, or years of emotional attachment?
How did you stop focusing on the old story and genuinely start believing in a different outcome?
One more thing that makes this harder:
We have actually never met in person yet, even though we’ve known each other for years online. That’s probably one of the biggest mental blocks for me.
I can imagine us together, I can imagine him coming to see me, but sometimes my brain goes into: “What if it’s unrealistic because we’ve never met in real life?”
So I’d really love advice from people who manifested a first meeting with an SP they had never met in person before - especially after years of online connection.
How did you stop identifying with the “old story” and start believing the meeting would actually happen?