Bf with severe ADHD is his reaction related? 30F 56M
Well my relationship is not the most common of all I’m a female 30yo and he is 56yo male. We met months ago we had a chemistry I didn’t expect. We reconnected recently it has been good but something I’ve noticed is he goes from 100 to 0 or 0 to a 100 whenever we disagree or have stupid fights. He says I’m the love of his life he didn’t expect to feel this at his age I’ve wonder of course about what it means with the age gap for our future but that didn’t push me back I’m naturally loyal and stay through hard times. He always tells me great things about how he feels with me so much that I think to myself wow he is really into me. But last night we had a little fight cause I notice some selfish behaviours in him like someone gifts us something and he immediately takes it for him or with his things he jokes around like oh it’s mine hehe not yours and last night during dinner after many of this details I went for his juice and he made a noise I lost it I was mad. And he went in saying how I ruin everything that every moment gets ruin because of me etc and then he said I’m out he basically broke up with me and sent me home in an uber. I literally can’t understand how can he go from you’re the love of my life he even bought us engagement rings which I didn’t ask for and he’s never done before. Does this have to do with his adhd? Is like he can’t handle a disagreement and without them we can’t really endure or develop a meaningful relationship. Over a stupid detail he sent everything to the trash.