u/Defiant-Winner-6145

I have been involved in risky behaviour in spa one girl tempted me to do directly without condom i did intercourse with her and with one aunt also 7 times I did in one night 2023 feb with her but after that I had more frequent urination i got married in 2023 match i didn't go to doctor for 2 years I was not able to sit in office due to pain in lower illiac upper pelvis region and my digestion also was not proper i got ibs prostate inflamation I was working in nightshifts now also doing night shifts and i used to mastribute a lot and drink alcohol in weekends after those intercourse after 1 month I got viral fever also with vertigo and crawling effect in ears and itching back of head started with bumps if i scratch would increase more behind my head after 2 years of suffering I went near urologist did urine culture semen culture hiv antibody test vdrl hbsag rapid antibody tests all came negative but I became weightloss 20 kgs i had dierea many times also ... Again due to prostate inflamation I was not aware about prostate while sitting in office my heart rate and blood pressure in kidneys used to increase and I can sense pressure in my center of my head due to pelvic floor tightness or dysfunction i did kft lft everything was normal .....but my friends told they had hiv the girl in spa and aunt with whom I did intercourse again i tested in 2025 December eclia antigen and antibody test and on January 2026 hiv rna qualitative test results wer negative due to frequent urination and night times i used to pee many times so andrologist done trus usg scan and said prostate infection is there so he added medication to me I took levofloxcine and doxycycline at that time digestion and urine frequency was good but as soon I left that medication my pelvic floor became heavy tight and very low urination but creatine shows normal i don't know what's happening in my body but all hiv tests i did with my own advise nondodvtor prefered me except that urologist.

And my wife also tested negative during pregnancy for hiv for hiv 4th generation test i did std full profile testing in 2025 dec everything was negative i got 10 months babe too now my wife also having full body itching little digestion problem she also got blood in stools at 4months after delviery and my baby got dierea for 5 days in 6months age some times he will be getting pimple like bumbs on body and face.

Please let me know my hiv status and what's tests I should do what type of std it could be i am very nervous and scared what if my baby and wife are infected due to any stds due to me please help me..

Need best advise on my ongoing health issue.

Facing alot of health issues due to worest fake best friend

I was having a fake best friend from 10 years his intension was making me HIV positive and suffer my life in 2022 he made me to do sex with one prostitute in spa massage center by making a deal with spa owner during an intercourse that prostitute asked me to fuck her without condom i did directly in that suituation but I was not having any doubt on him because he used to spend money for me alot for drinking and eating to spoil me and my life I reduced my weight suddenly around 7kgs in some days but I didn't had basic regarding stds.

Symptoms started like indigestion problem and frequent urination if i drink my prostate used to swell i can't hold little amount of urine in my bladder i thought nothing it will become alright for some days and neglected i never went to doctor until two years.

And before my marriage 2023 feb 22 one aunt

trapped me to have sex it is also deal from him to her i got trapped and she tempted me and and she tempted me like to do sex directly without condom i did sex with her 7 times in night She didn't leave me i dont know her hiv status.

So after my marriage i got frequent urination i was not able sit in office for long time for work i used to drink more and more water and urinate. More and more urine frequency increased this continued i used to work in night shift for some days later my left iliac nerves pulling towards epidimis and i used d to mastribute alot ....and my sleep was very bad i was not sleeping more and my pelvic floor used to become full tight in office while sitting in office and more urination while driving car i used to operate cluth my left illace upper pelvis above hip i used to get pain always there .

after 2 months 2023 April i got viral fever with vertigo for 5 days and I got weight loss also it continued i got dierea wat ever if I eat i used to get ibs dierea itching behind head with pimple like bumps if am scratching it was becoming more and big and within 30 minutes those pimples used to reduce i don't know anything about stds i used to smoke and drink so it continued for a year I was not able to sit in office chair my prostate inflamation it turned to prostitis for small amount of drops of urine I ran to washroom daily in office My urine output was reduced.

After all these 2 years of suffering I went to urologist and i explained everything he made me to do urine culture semen culture hiv one two antibody test vdrl hbsag hepatitis c and all tests everything came negative. I did kft lft test also everything was good And he used to do uroflowmetry when i drink more water and walk at time i used to get fart and get amount of urine in uroflowmetry to increase good frequency he gave me alfusin and sent me but my urine output became verylow going forward.

When I am going to hospitals in 2025 may 16th he made a deal with doctor they used me used needle for injecting amikasin antibiotic and my kidneys got cramps on that day after that doctor gave me rifagut 550 for 2 weeks due to my indigestion i got more farting gases and good urination from that day my muscle cramps started full my body spoiled due to medication.

My wife was also tested hiv 4th generation during her pregnancy she also tested negative but she also used to have dierea sometime and daily night headache due to office work.

But I my symptoms used to continue more and more i used to drink alcohol in weekends with him only but one fine day i saw him was he was adding some substance in my alcohol and he was bringing non veg to room wantedly everytime I dono what he was mixing but after along term suffering i went near many urologist i was helpless then I went to andrologist he did trus usg scan to my prostate he found was infected so he gave doxycycline for 20 days and levofloxcine with chyromal forte it was good when I am taking those but when I left those medication it became still worest that my digestion was not happening stools passing was difficult due to pelvic floor was verytight and my legs and face used to swell in office for sitting long time in office with verylow urine output currently also doing nightshifts only.

I left that worest friend 5 months back only ...then again i tested 2026 january hiv 1 rna qualitative test and antibody test results came negative .

But I have sever weightloss from 108 kgs to 90kgs now I have sleep disturbances nervous tension indigestion verylow urine output burning sensation near upper pelvis near illiace region i got hair loss patchy beared sometimes mouth ulcers body functions not happening properly somthing crawling in my ears.

My doubt is he may be adding ART medicine not to detect my hiv in blood tests. Please suggest me guys.