35F for Monogamous Casual Companion
This is my anon rant.
35F, Malay, not religious, stable career, own my place, financially independent. Parents are gone, siblings all busy with their own lives.
I actually like being single. I like my freedom and my peace. I have no desire to start a family, I've felt that way since puberty. Now I'm doing great with IUD.
My whole adult life, I've only had long-term FWBs. Never had a boyfriend.
Also, now that I think about it... I've never been with someone from my own race. Never planned it that way...it just happened. Or maybe I subconsciously avoided it because I didn't want to deal with unsolicited serjmons about how I should live my life.
Lately though, it feels like everyone I meet is either looking for a serious, committed relationship... or they're just plain reckless fuckboys. There doesn't seem to be much in between anymore.
Honestly, I just want one constant companion. Meet on the weekends, chill, play games, have plenty s£x, stay over, then both go back to our own lives.
No multiple partners, both tested, raw, no spouse, no drama, no STDs. Definitely no constant texting or calling during the weekdays, I love my peace and my work more.
Am I weird or are there actually people who want this too?
Edit: Gosh, people.
I said weekends, not every weekend. Monday to Friday, we're basically strangers.
I like my weekends drama-free. If another woman might pull my hair because of you, keep walking.
I also like my peace .....that includes avoiding STDs. If you prefer having multiple partners, that's your choice. It's just not for me. Carry on, sir.