r/r4rMY

Hey, I am travelling alone to Ipoh (Gopeng) from KL for my car inspection. Figure out it might be nice to have a buddy to chat during the journey. Anyone interested?

Hi everyone I’m a 20 year old black girl living and studying right outside KL. I’m looking for a long term relationship with someone older than me that is a gentleman and is able to spoil and love his woman.

A bit about me, I’m 166, black girl, curvy build, brown skin. I’m a little shy in the first few minutes of meeting but I generally tend to open up more. I love swimming, horror movies, and music. I also love embracing other cultures.

I’m looking for a sweet nice guy who is able to love and spoil me. I am more interested in guys that are older than me, please no same age. I like confident guys who know what they want in life and go for it, someone who is able to see the benefits of having me and someone who will love taking care of me. If you are interested just send a message, more than happy to chat.

Hi, I'm looking for something long term but not interested in building a family and all that. I want to be child free and just be monogamous with a woman I can tolerate. Past relationships did not work because of this difference in mindset. So if you think they way I do, hit me up and lets give it a go? 183cm and 90kg if it helps.

I saw someone doing it and why not I push myself out here for the very last time.

Orientation: Straight

Location: Selangor

Year of Birth: 2002

Religion / Race: Chinese (Conversational mandarin only LOL)

Occupation: Marketing Executive

Hobbies and interests: Solo drives, thrifting, hiking, gym

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

- I am quite independent so you know how it goes

- I am super straightforward (98%)

- My words are mostly unfiltered

- I don’t drink, club nor smoke (Boring ahh lifestyle)

- I am either thrifty or spendthrift; no in between

- Shy at first but yaps a lot once comfortable

- I meal prep most of my days

Requirements / Preferences:

- Prefer humanns that speaks English at least 98% of their life

- Prefer ages between 24-28 years old

- EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT

- Is sarcastic and humorous

I think that’s about it! No idea what to say already LOL

For context, I am not looking for a relationship but rather friends to yap random things. I have given up on the dating scene.

This is my anon rant.

35F, Malay, not religious, stable career, own my place, financially independent. Parents are gone, siblings all busy with their own lives.

I actually like being single. I like my freedom and my peace. I have no desire to start a family, I've felt that way since puberty. Now I'm doing great with IUD.

My whole adult life, I've only had long-term FWBs. Never had a boyfriend.

Also, now that I think about it... I've never been with someone from my own race. Never planned it that way...it just happened. Or maybe I subconsciously avoided it because I didn't want to deal with unsolicited serjmons about how I should live my life.

Lately though, it feels like everyone I meet is either looking for a serious, committed relationship... or they're just plain reckless fuckboys. There doesn't seem to be much in between anymore.

Honestly, I just want one constant companion. Meet on the weekends, chill, play games, have plenty s£x, stay over, then both go back to our own lives.

No multiple partners, both tested, raw, no spouse, no drama, no STDs. Definitely no constant texting or calling during the weekdays, I love my peace and my work more.

Am I weird or are there actually people who want this too?

Edit: Gosh, people.

1. I said weekends, not every weekend. Monday to Friday, we're basically strangers.

2. I like my weekends drama-free. If another woman might pull my hair because of you, keep walking.

3. I also like my peace .....that includes avoiding STDs. If you prefer having multiple partners, that's your choice. It's just not for me. Carry on, sir.

25|F in Sabah but open to know everyone from WM and EM.

A little about me, I like going to the gym to make bad decisions and skip cardio, big fan of coffee and matcha, don't smoke or drink alcohol, I also like listening to podcasts, trying new food spots and watching action movies!

Looking for someone who's easy to talk to, has a good sense of humour, and enjoys good conversations. Let's be weird together. You don't necessarily have to like the same things that I do.

I'm straight too btw

Gender: Male

Orientation: Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1988

Height: 173cm

Weight: 85kg

Religion / Race: Chinese

Occupation: Customer Support

Hobbies and interests: Football, Basketball, F1, Movies, Poker

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

- Listening: A highly skilled listener who can hear your worries, joys, and everything in between.

- Problem-Solving: Excellent at offering solutions, whether for tech issues or emotional dilemmas.

- Humor: Proficient in cracking jokes and lightening the mood during tough days.

- Support: Always ready to encourage your passions, and be there through both the highs and lows.

References:

- Friend: "He’s like Google, he knew everything."

- Colleague: "Best employee in the company."

- Nephew: "Uncle always buy me toy and carry me to fly"

Requirements / Preferences: Looking for someone who wants a relationship that's equal parts romance, adventure, and "let's stay up talking until 3 a.m." If poker is your thing, you've just found your favorite conversation partner. I'll bring the loyalty, sarcasm, and support—you bring your best poker face. ♠️ INTP.

I want somebody who can voice message or voice chat, I want that type of type bond like a best triend, I do not really reply on Reddit, but I do reply on discord I am not a gamer just to get that out of the way. I am am more into TV shows and reality TV shows. Also I just moved to a Malaysia about 7 months ago for school program so finding friends has been rough as an introverted person. My discord handle is (froyololo).

Just looking to expand my social circle and find some like-minded people for platonic friendships. If you happen to share the same daily commute, maybe we can even be commute buddies! WhatsApp buddies also can. Let’s exchange stickers! Hshshs

- 35, Married (no kids)
- Working in IT which involves a pretty long MRT commute between KL and Kajang. Zzz
- Big fan of action, sci-fi, and thriller movies. Always down to discuss movie lore or mind-bending plots.
- Mostly into post-hardcore music. Talk about those 2000s golden age, amirite?
- Big on pop culture in general. But also informed on current affairs.

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Hey, I’m 34, expat, and based in Bandar Sunway. Looking to meet new and interesting people.

I spend a good amount of time at the gym and running, it keeps me grounded and clears my head. Outside of that, I like watching and discussing film and TV. Prefer scifi/fantasy and thriller/horror.

Big foodie too, always up for trying new spots or just doing casual meals and coffee. I enjoy easygoing hangouts and good conversation.

Comment if interested!

Hey! I'm a 26-year-old Malay guy from Kuala Lumpur looking to meet someone who's interested in building a genuine, long-term relationship.

A little about me:

- I enjoy watching movies and dramas, so I'm always up for recommendations or binge-watching together.

- I'm also into sports and enjoy following different games and talking about them.

- I'm easygoing, honest, and believe good communication is the foundation of any relationship.

What I'm looking for:

- A woman who's looking for something serious and long-term.

- Someone kind, emotionally mature, and willing to put effort into getting to know each other.

- I'm open to long-distance relationships if we have a strong connection.

I don't expect an instant spark. I'd rather start with good conversations, get to know each other naturally, and see where things go.

If this sounds like something you're looking for too, send me a message! Tell me a bit about yourself, your favorite movie or drama, your favorite sport, or anything you're passionate about. If we click, I'm happy to exchange photos once we're both comfortable.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Hi, I’m 37F, married (no kids) working in Johor. Would love to have friends to go cafe hopping, mani pedi, or just chilling at the bar (I do drink but much less now) while listening to live bands.

I am not based in JB, but usually go to JB when I’m bored (though I work in a normal 8 to 5 office job, so yeah usually weekends).

Looking for ladies who probably at the same life phase as me, where friends either have moved away or focusing on their family or just simply friendships have drifted apart.

Hit me up if you are looking for similar friendship, or just want to make new friends :)

Hello! I’m 37F from Stone Friend, married, and looking strictly for platonic friendship.

About me: I’m generally quite low key but an ambivert, so I can be rather loud once I’m comfortable. 😅 I tend to pick up hobbies as I go, though not many of them stick long-term. I do have a Switch and wouldn’t mind picking up a co-op game. I enjoy watching anime especially isekai. I have a soft spot for dark humour. Lately, I’ve been trying to do more things for myself, so I’ve started going to the gym. I’m also trying to get into reading, although I haven’t made it past the title page yet. I’m available on Discord, Tele and here.

What I’m looking for: a friend. Someone to share the little everyday things with, asking how the day went, chatting about grocery shopping, meals, or whatever else is going on. I’m also open to mutual venting or talking about heavier things from time to time, as long as it’s respectful and goes both ways.

I’m going through a difficult season in my personal life and have been feeling quite lonely, so I’m really just hoping to find genuine, easy companionship.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out.

Update : thank you for the DMs and responses 🙏🏻 I cakap siap2, if your acct has trails of sus activities sorry gomen I won’t reply.

32/M/Kelantan

I am married with 2 kids. I love playing video games (i own RTX 4090). My other hobby is photography and videography (love my Sony ZVE1). I also enjoyed cycling.

I could spend lots of time watching Youtube videos about games and cameras. But I do that mostly alone. I have nobody to talk about stuff.

My wife is completely different from me. She doesnt play games and not techsavvy. Whenever I talk to her these things, she listened but doesnt know what to talk about.

(Shes and excellent wife btw).

I dont have friends at work. I dont know how to make friend. All my coworker doesnt have the same interest as me.

To be honest, I dont really know how to approach people to become friends.

Hai everyone,I'm a 29y/o female from Sungai Petani. I'd really love to make some fellow book worm friends or even just friends in general to talk about daily life and have mundane conversations.

After leaving uni,although I tried to maintain them,most of my friendships have evaporated into thin air. I find myself feeling lonely at times even though I am confortable in my own company.

The reason I specified bookworm friends is cuz I especially spend most of my time reading so itd be nice to have someone as a book buddy or to just talk about what we've been reading.

I'm a huge Harry Potter and Hannibal fan. I also love reading chinese and korean translated novels as well as manhwa and manga although this year,I've mostly been reading novels. You might judge me but I also read fanfiction,haha because I just cant let go of my favourite characters so easily.

Otherwise,I'm just a homebody who mostly just goes to and fro from work to home. I love listening to music as well. One of my favourite singers is IU. I enjoy watching sitcoms and the occasional K-drama.

Please do hit me up if you'd be ok to be friends with me. Thank you to anyone reading this even if I dont get any responses.

Hello r4rMalaysia,

I think I am at that age where I'm confident enough to step out of my comfort zone and make new friends. I think it'd be great if I start welcoming whatever opportunities that come my way with open arms.

I am a:

● Muslim Malay male

● 26-years-old

● Residing in Shah Alam

● Pupil-in-chambers

I am looking for a friend, or friends, that I can chill with. I entertain small talk, philosophical thoughts, deep topics, sembang kacip, scandalous opinions and more with a fairly open mind.

I am a yapper at heart once you get to know me so I guess that's a good thing...?

I am mainly looking for more guy friends but hey, this prompt is open for all!

My interests include:

● Pokemon

● Animations (Gravity Falls, Adventure Time, etc.)

● Movies (The Hunger Games, Smile 2, etc.)

● Window shopping (because actual shopping is hellish in this economy)

I do intend on hanging out in person once I am comfortable and confident enough with any respondents.

We can always take the LRT and explore KL together (ayeeeee!!)

Looking forward to your kind response!

I'm a non-Muslim Sabahan in my mid-20s, standing at 172cm. I find it difficult to find a (single) guy who is taller than me. I have dated guys who are the same height and even shorter than me. It's alright and I did enjoy the bond while they lasted. But I was just wondering if I can ever feel "small" in a relationship.

I prefer to date fellow Borneans (Sabah and/or Sarawak).

I'm currently doing my pupillage and planning to do my Masters after.

Hello everyone. I am 31, f, born and raised in Pahang. I live nearby the beach and I love going there every week. Currently doing freelance as writer and transcriber and slowly rebuilding life after a series of challenging health issues. I am a big fan of supernatural/horror/fantasy genre, whether it is books or movies or video games. Currently exploring the new gen R&B music but Evanescence is still number one in my heart. I'm looking for a friendship where both sides put in effort. I enjoy back and forth chats and sharing little parts of daily life. Food pics, stray cats, nice skies, random moments, that kind of thing.Honestly, the mundane stuff is my favorite part. Thanks for reading my post and hopefully we can be friends!