r/r4rMY

hey mid 20s F. Just moved to sentul for work and wanted to use my time after work to explore kl. anyone up for it lmk! not looking for a relationship. only friendships !

Female friendships preferably 😅
im an infj if that matters.
i guess i like anime and just trying new stuff
i love cats
love music

Hi! 26 F here looking for my potential soulmate. I'm very introverted as well as a homebody so I don't see myself finding anyone in real life. Dating apps don't really work out either as I'm somehow only matched with international people while I'd like to settle down in Johor.

I'm Malay Muslim but don't really practice. Like I don't do what I need to do but I don't do what I can't do either. So I wear the hijab sometimes don't really pray. I also don't drink, eat pork and miggle with the opposite gender. So very wishy washy Muslim. But im6still looking for a Muslim partner as my family is conservative.

So my interests I love watching slice of life anime current favourites are Mairimashita Iruma kun and Victoria's many faces. I also love board games and Lego building blocks. Currently I'm building a 5k piece Harry Potter castle set (it's a fake from alibaba not real). I'm also currently in love with reading horror web novels. My current favorites being Got dropped into a ghost story still gotta work and Safety Rules for the 99th floor. If you know them, I love you already haha.

Also I'm a true night owl. I like to be awake at night and asleep during the day. So hopefully you'll be fine with that if you're open to approach me. I'm currently also going to the gym at least 3 times a week and swim once a week. I'm not thin though I'm 80kg but am working to lose it.

Anyways, I'm looking for a guy that as nerdy as me and get excited by sharing our favorite parts in our favorite novels. Also someone that's fine with silence but is just happy with each other's presence. Sometimes I just need someone I can rest with.

Hopefully someone within my age so 24-34.

I hope that those who approach me would be open to a serious relationship only. I don't have the social battery for casual relationships.

Edit: Btw, I may not respond promptly as I'm working now. As a true night owl. I only work night shifts. But I'll respond to dms as soon as I can

Hi, Im currently based in KL (But accessible to areas like Putrajaya, Seri Kembangan etc..) and looking to make new friends to hang, play board games, watch movies, karaoke, read, picnic or just lepak cafe or library.

I do NOT want to do anything physical or active like bouldering, running or hiking. The only physical activity I rajin is going to gym from time to time just so I don't turn into a tree, so please don't ajak me running 😭

I jump from one interest to another every few months, currently Im into reading (Would love to find friends who read the same genre; Romance and Fantasy!) and also Im slowly watching the necessary viewing for before Doomsday.

I play chess from time to time too, but Im bad at it💀

Im fine with making friends with any gender and orientation. Currently my focus is finding community, but Im not opposed to the idea of relationship/partnership either (though it is not a top priority of mine)

hmu if you wanna be friends or if you know any active board game/chess/reading communities!

Hello to whoever reading this.

I am a quiet introverted homebody who's looking for an online parallel play buddy to hang out together while doing our own thing. I draw, read and play Minecraft in my spare times and I want someone who can stay in a voice call (discord) while I do these activities. We can talk of course though, I mostly prefer to listen so if you don't mind responses such as 'Oh', 'I see', Yeah' etc., feel free to drop your own intro. Also, very rarely, I can invite you to go out to the library, take a walk or maybe watch a movie. Except keep in mind that at the moment I'm very broke so I prefer to not go out. I guess if you need an accountability buddy you can hit me with your intro as well.

Have a nice day ^⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠^

I just moved to KL 2 months ago and ngl most of my free time is spent on Overwatch (proud homebody). I’ve been playing the game for the past 9 years. I peaked at masters last season on Ashe/Sombra. Now just trying to play other heroes and chill/have fun.

I do play some other games like Meccha Chameleon when there’s people available. Also down to try other games.

It’s also kind of difficult to make friends here in KL (not that I’ve tried much 😂). Everyone in my workplace is much older than I am (I’m almost 29M and know close to nobody in Malaysia), so don’t really know how else to meet people. Im pretty chill and love funny people, so if you’re interested in playing hmu :) Down to even just go watch movies or something (I go almost every month or two when there’s something good on).

Hello guys internationalstudent in kuala , I'm done of being alone, people always when they see me they asking do u have girlfriend lol, idk why.

Anyway I'm 190cm, white, long hair, and muscular.

I'm really into curvy girls, but being smart is more important to me.

Please if u interested Pm and don't forget to show me ur photo and I'll show u aswell. 🤝🏻

Hey guys! 28F here, based in JB~ I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully build a small circle of friends to do random things together( strictly platonic, of course!). It could literally be anything: grocery shopping, trying out new activities, checking out cafés, going for walks, or just hanging out and chilling.

Would anyone be interested in something like this? I thought it’d be nice to have a small group where we can actually get to know each other and hang out without it being awkward.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me!

Hey! I’m 23, 183cm, Indian, with curly hair, and currently studying Computer Science at MMU.

I’ve tried dating apps before, but honestly, I find them pretty exhausting and repetitive. So I figured I’d try something different and see if I can meet someone naturally through Reddit.

A little about me: I’m really into movies, anime, history, and music. I listen to English, Tamil, Japanese and Finnish music, and I can speak Japanese to an extent. I’m also a huge sitcom rewatcher — if I like a show, there’s a very good chance I’ll watch it again instead of starting something new

I love coffee, trying new things, travelling, and generally getting myself into random experiences. I’m also really into snowboarding and would say I’m pretty damn good at it. I’ve been trying to get back into the gym more consistently too, so if you’re someone who enjoys being active, that’s a bonus.

Personality wise, I’m pretty chill and easy to talk to. I like conversations that can go from stupid jokes to genuinely interesting discussions about history, life, or whatever random topic we somehow ended up on.

I’m not really looking to rush into anything. I’d rather meet someone I genuinely get along with, start with talking, grab coffee, and see where it goes. If you’re around KL/Selangor, roughly my age, and also looking to meet someone, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself too please don’t just send “hey” 😭

And if nothing romantic comes out of it, I’m still always down to meet cool people and make new friends.

Thank you:)

Hey! 24M here 👋

I’ve been single for most of my life, and now that I’ve started working and settling into a more adult routine, I’ve found myself wanting to connect with someone. Not necessarily looking to rush into anything serious I’d just like to meet a girl, start talking, and see where things naturally go. 🌱

❤️A little honesty: I’m also coming out of a recent heartbreak. Funny enough, I actually met someone really nice through this subreddit, but unfortunately things didn’t go as planned. It didn’t work out, but it did remind me that putting yourself out there can lead to something meaningful, even if it doesn’t always last.
So, I’m trying again. 😅

I’m looking for something low-maintenance but meaningful someone I can talk to throughout the day, share random thoughts with, send stupid pictures to, talk about our day, and slowly become part of each other’s everyday life.

I’m slightly introverted, so I tend to like girls who are a little more talkative and can bring me out of my shell. I’m especially drawn to people who are nerdy, artsy, funny, ambitious, or genuinely passionate about what they love. 🧠🎨

A little about me: I love travelling, moviess, discovering new places, and experiencing things outside my usual routine. 🌍

I’m not looking for perfection or some instant movie-like connection. Just someone kind, interesting, and comfortable enough to slowly get to know each other.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me! And please tell me something about yourself beyond just “hey” give me something to work with HAHA

Maybe we’ll click. Maybe we won’t. But I’d love to find out. ✨

Hey everyone! 24F from JB here 👋🏻 I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully build a small circle of genuine friendships. Strictly platonic, of course! 😊

Life has been pretty busy and honestly a little boring with the same routine, so I thought it’d be nice to connect with some new people. I’d prefer friends around KL/PJ, but I’m also open to long-distance friendships and getting to know each other online first.

I’m pretty easygoing and open to all kinds of things, grabbing coffee or food, checking out new cafés, exploring places, going for walks, trying random activities, hanging out and chilling, or simply having casual online chats and sharing random thoughts about life. 😄

No pressure or expectations — just hoping to meet some friendly, respectful people, have good conversations, and hopefully make some genuine friendships along the way.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me! 😊

M28

Hi. I don’t know if this is the right forum but just wanna vent a bit. Can share the right forum for this topic if you know.

Im currently stuck with my career and salary. My salary is still rm3000 ish for many years already. Im doing sales job but in small sales industry where the coms you get is just hundreds a month.

My education background is in environmental and sustainability. I have tried apply so many jobs for those positions but never got called even I change my resume multiple times, most of the reason is they want experience people but my experiences are just in sales. So im still stuck in this sales job with low salary.

Since Im not financially stable it also affects my relationship life so I always avoid to date anyone and don’t want to think about marriage.

Anyone have suggestions or advices can share or dm me. Even harsh one I will take it. Thanks a lot!

I’m back on here after taking a long breath and deciding it was time to step out into the world again.

​For the past two years, my life had a very steady, meaningful rhythm. I was in a long-term relationship with a mature, established woman. It was a dynamic where we truly looked out for each other, she brought a level of stability, direction, and generosity into my life, and in turn, I gave her my full attention, genuine affection, and consistent presence.

That chapter has since come to an end, but it taught me a lot about what I value. I realized that standard dating just doesn't align with what I'm looking for; I naturally connect best with mature women who value that kind of unspoken, mutually supportive bond.

​Now that the dust has settled, I find myself missing the warmth, the effortless conversations, and the quiet comfort of real companionship.

​I’m putting this post out there with complete transparency. I’m looking for a mature female who finds herself wanting consistent companionship, affection, and a reliable partner to share meaningful moments with. Whether it’s unwinding together after a long week, deep conversations, or building a arrangement where both of us feel genuinely cared for and appreciated, I’m open to seeing where a good connection leads.

​There’s no pretense here just a grounded, attentive guy who appreciates the grace and experience of an older woman, looking for someone who would enjoy having that warmth and dedicated presence back in her life.

​If any of this resonates with you, or if you’ve been looking for a safe, respectful space to connect, my inbox is open. Send a DM and let’s start with a relaxed conversation to see if the chemistry is there.

Hello everyone! First time in this sub! I am travelling up to Long Beach to do some fun dives and my AOW. Anyone in the area and wanna group up for fun dives or chill after? Open to groups! Gonna be real quiet for me :))))

Tumpang Tanya, kenapa girls kat Reddit suka ghosting? I thought we had a good conversation and suddenly poof into thin air? Why would you start the conversation if you're not interested in getting to know each other? Is it so hard to say you don't vibe with someone and bid them farewell?

hi! I’m 23, married and have a baby. I am a stay at home mother (not looking to work) but I do have a nanny and a maid for my baby in case I do have plans to go out. (So hangouts wouldn’t be with my baby as well)

I’m looking to make some friends cause I’ve realised a lot of my current friends aren’t as understanding or accommodating about this stage of my life and still making last minute plans or plans to meet up very late to drink etc.

I enjoy playing the piano, baking, arts and crafts, I used to do pottery before I got pregnant so about 1 year + I haven’t gotten to do it, I also used to gym a lot before my pregnancy but same as pottery about 1 year + haven’t been back to the gym.

Hopefully I can make some friends that I could go gym with or maybe go shopping or maybe go to a kid friendly mall so I can leave my son and his nanny and maid there while we hang out

*edit to add, I’m currently based in KL/Bangsar

[Cheras/Seremban] Need friends who can carry me in Dota and also carry me out of the bar 🍻🎮

Yo. I have hobbies, no friends to do them with. Fixing that.

• 🎮 Dota 2 — I int sometimes, I carry sometimes, I rage always. Need a stack so I stop screaming alone.
• 🏸 Badminton — weekend warrior tier. Will absolutely die after 3 games but will pretend I'm fine.
• ⚽ Futsal — need bodies to fill a team so we stop losing 8-2.
• 🎲 Board games — I will flip the table if I lose Catan. Fair warning.
• 🍺 Drinks/bar hopping — self-explanatory, let's be responsible adults who make bad decisions together.

Based around Cheras/Seremban, but I'll travel for good vibes and worse decisions.

Not looking for anything deep and meaningful — just people who'll actually turn up when plans are made instead of ghosting like my last squad. If you can lose gracefully at board games and badminton, and win ungracefully at Dota, we'll get along great.

Drop a comment, DM me, whatever — let's ruin our livers and win lane together.

Hey there ! Hence the title, I've been pretty much strolling here and came to the realization of self, damn just dropped a post already 😅

Just stating the facts,

1. Yes, I'm a Malay hijabi woman. Yes, I am on the healthier meaty scale, the slim word has left me dinosaur ages ago 🤭. Yes, I am on the older spectrum for F to be in search of ( if u wanna just count in Malaysia but anywhere else age is just a digit )( yet I truly believe I am in my peak years of Life lol ) my chances are kinda slim here, but yeah whatever... We never know how cold the water is until we dive in.

2. I would say myself just modestly in the middle, not too lefty or righty. Tho it would be a bit more relaxed if we share the same faith and practice moderately ( open to all races as I am mixed race myself )

3. This is no. 3 but surely It Is The Most Crucial Part. Personality matters, GENUINE as can be. No time-wasters or simply to drop a Hi and ghost after a few sentences, really inappropriate of you as I value and look good in all situations as possible. ' Don't tend to others something that you don't want to go thru yourself ' LOL... Not meaning to start the Mommy Advice Mode be all stocky, actually I am a very easygoing & adventurous person. Love3 nature, mini-hikes, being active, quiet chill coffee hunts,etc...

4. Upfront is the code here, but not leaking all center stage. Having kids but never limiting myself to still living my Best Life yet and Loving Self coz this is about 2 souls to meet hopefully.. Not a Gamer at all, more into really Living it ( life experiences suited to write a book, which I hopefully will one day ☺️)

Thanks for reading this far. BeYOUtifully inside, it will shine outwards. Never stop trying until our expiration date on earth. Peace Out ✌️

heya!! i’ve been on reddit for a bit and have met a handful of people– some alright, some very not alright… but im a positive thinker so..

im turning 24 this year, and would love to make more friends (esp female friendships!!) i feel like my current clique has outgrown each other, and its not inherently bad per se but sometimes i do wish i had more like minded friends who are interested in the same things as me

but anw, here are a few of my interests:
- f1 (im gg in oct!!)
- makeup, fashion, nails
- thrifting, just overall galavanting outdoors– i love aimlessly walking and window shopping
- i’ve started working out + taking better care of my health as of recent so id rly rly appreciate girls/friends who are on a similar fitness journey
- just overall dumb jokes, gen z brainless humour, but also the ability to connect and have deep conversations when needed

im generally open to either gender, however i am interested in being strictly friends only 🩵

edit: im currently dating someone so frfr js friends pls dont cross boundaries with me i am not interested in anything more than js being friends, js a heads up :>

a lil more about me: im based in selangor, currently working but going to continue my postgrad next year tentatively, and prefer to converse in english / bahasa as my mandarin is horrid LMAO

that’s all!! just be nice and introduce yourself in my dms, im kinda busy most days but ill try my best to keep the convo rolling and we’ll see how things go from there :D