u/DeliciousFrosting290

I don't know where else to post this. My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me because he says he's gay and refuses to explain to me why, how etc. I'm filled with emotions rage, sadness, confusion, I just don't understand how he can be with me for 3 years spend so many moments together just to turn up and say he's gay. I'm in a constant state of denial that he just thinks he is but in reality he just got bored of me, which I hate myself for because I know he can't help it but I just feel so deceived and lost. If he really is gay, he never loved or enjoyed our intimate moments together in my head. I'm just so mad that he realised it so late as well. Why do gay guys do this? I don't know if my feelings are justified or some deep rooted homophobia beliefs within me, I don't want to be mad at him but I can't bring myself to not hate him for this and I don't want to feel this way towards him.

EDIT: I see a lot of responds that he did because of societal norms and beliefs, while I understand it, it was the only reasoning I refused to accept, because in my head then he only got with me, not because of me, but being pressured to do so, which is just a tough pill to swallow.

My dog is about 4 months, taught by the shelter i got her to do her bussiness on a diaper, and just refuses to pee outside. We were on a boat for 14 hours and I was like she'd surely go right? Well she didn't she kept holding it till we got home. I have a garden so when she eats and wakes up I take her out for 3 hours, she just keep crying and crying (when she starts crying I take her to her diaper because I feel bad for my baby) and the minute we go up she goes. Buying diapers isnt really an issue, she's just a very active dog and I also like walks so it just makes sense for her to get potty trained. I've tried to established a routine give encouragement and such but nothing works. Is it because she's too young, am I rushing her?