u/Delicious_Carob_5623

I'm a guy btw, I was seeing someone for 4 months, which isn't that long a time but it was an intense mutual love, talking about the future. That's what makes it harder as I got a message out the blue saying that in order for them to focus on their health they arent ready to commit to a relationship.

I fully believe them, and even told them to be honest if they didn't think it wasn't working I would rather hear the truth.

The pain is that I want to wait for them, but they don't want the pressure on them of that. I know I need to move on and writing things down and getting it out is hoping me cope. I just don't see myself without them 😕