Confused and would like advice.
Been a devotee on and off for 5 years Let's just say i am working my butt off to be on her good side again i have made broken promises before and always apologize but why is there so much superstition surrounding Santa Muerte and fear about promises? From what i have experienced all she does is slowly take those things she gave you away and when you notice something is not right it's a wake up call from mami but i don't and will never believe she causes misfortune.
My overall experience with her has been positive even when i just got super lazy in my spiritual practice i verbally ended my relationship with her explained my reasoning then got rid of my candles, statues etc, honestly spending on spiritual items is very expensive and I felt bad not holding my end of the bargain so i just gave up.
I Recently got back into spirituality and bought a whole new altar i recently had some drinks from the tequila i bought her with her permission and just promised to turn on her candles before asking for favors again. I guess the purpose of this rant is why is there so many you shouldn't do xyz thing or she will be upset when she is a very understanding mother. Is it just fear mongering?