Need help knowing if he’s actually flirting or not.
I’m 23yo and currently DL i.e. in the closet, but there’s this guy on my gym who’s a 4 years than me and I find him really attractive, despite the age difference. But sometimes while I catch him looking at him, but I can’t rlly tell if he’s checking me out or not and I don’t rlly know his sexuality. But on Friday I barged in to greet both him and one other guy and he joked, and I quote, that my pecs were “so massive I’d end up breastfeeding” and just overall complimenting my physique, which made blush kinda hard and made me rule out the possibility he was bi or gay since that sort of joke is just insane to make to a guy you barely know. Fast forward to the 1 am of the same night and I receive a notification on instagram to see that he followed me, even though I never even told him what my @ was.
I’m really bad at flirting and communicating as whole, so I really need help knowing if it’s all just in my head and I need to take some meds.