Need third perspective or opinions about a girl
I need honest opinions about a girl I currently like because I genuinely can’t tell if I’m overanalyzing or if there’s actually something there.
We work together and she’s very comfortable around me. She laughs with me, talks beyond just work topics, sends voice notes sometimes, asks personal questions, notices mood changes, and usually keeps conversations going instead of replying dryly. If I start a topic, especially deeper/philosophical stuff, she engages properly and often starts branching into other stories and discussions naturally.
One thing that confused me a lot is physical boundaries. Twice, accidental touch happened and both times she rubbed that area afterward, which honestly hurt me mentally because it made me feel like she disliked being touched by me specifically. But at the same time, she still acts warm overall and even noticed when I became quiet after overthinking it. She asked me multiple times what happened and whether I had a fight with someone or if something was wrong.
Another thing is she once forcefully ordered food for me because I was hungry, which felt caring, but then my brain immediately goes:
“Is this special treatment or is she just naturally caring with everyone?”
She also seems to have strong modesty boundaries in general, so now I can’t tell whether the touch reactions were personal rejection or just her natural comfort limits. (I mean if its cause of this purpose then i guess it's totally fine. I also can't touch her actually, lol.)
Well, i can't say she ever gave mixed signals or hints btw.
What confuses me most is that I genuinely like her, but not in the same overwhelming obsessive way I liked previous crushes. This feels calmer and more grounded, which ironically makes me question my own feelings even more.
From an outside perspective:
Does this sound like normal friendly comfort?
Possible slow attraction?
Or am I just emotionally overanalyzing every interaction because I like her?