What would you do if your significant other came home and told you they had an STD, and swore they had no idea where it came from?
My husband and I get into stupid conversations (neurodivergent couple). We saw a story about a woman who divorced her husband because she had been diagnosed with an STD and the Dr told her the only way it could have happened was if the husband had cheated on her. It later came out that she got it through another way and the husband was innocent which he had insisted on the whole time.
Now the husband doesn't want to reconcile because the wife never believed him, because the Dr was telling her it was impossible that he had not cheated, but the wife never asked for a second opinion.
My husbands stance is that he would trust me and want to know more medically as to what was happening. He wouldn't really be concerned about me having cheated unless there were other signs.
My stance is "trust but confirm" since we both have full access to each other's phones and devices anyway id check those but also want to know more about what was going on medically.
Any other takes on this?