u/DenseQuantity1450

Our main focus is to not hop places and do packing g unpacking a lot.

On 22nd November reaching around 07pm in colombo airport. Confused between where to stay the night negombo or colombo.

23rd November - go to kandy or nuwara eliya, I know this is hectic buty wife wants to see sita amman temple. This I am also confused stay the night in kandy or stay directly in nuwara eliya.

How early we should leave?

24-25 november 2 nights - stay in ella, this i haven't explored much as of now.

26-28 - 3 nights - got to south beaches. This we want to stay maybe in a single hotel or Airbnb but want to see mirrisa, and other beaches there. Is this even possible? To stay in a single hotel and have access to all beaches.

29 go late to colombo stay there and then leave on 30th from cmb airport.

We also thinking to not have private taxi for the whole trip but hire them for long distances. This is just because of my anxiety to think that driver might be waiting for us, so just hurry.

Please let us know the reality, if this is a fine itinerary or what we can change

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I almost more more than twice as my wife, also i don't have any major responsibility of family or anyone on the other hand my wife has a guilt to take care of her parents give them good life which is fine and I already knew it.

We last year went to Thailand, that was done by me, recently bought a home downpayment and loan emi I will pay and I am fine with it as this is I can bear, this year we are also planning for international and lots of my friends are going either europe or japan, Australia but this will be more than twice for the budget i had, my wife can only contribute like 5-10% of it, so we have to raincheck it and think of another place.

I know this is selfish but I was thinking that I could've gone myself as I have the budget. How to find peace with this that is the reality and it might come but later.

My wife does help financially whatever she can, no doubt in that and she does said that she will get a more better job but she hardly stays consistent, she says she will give the world to her people but next day it is all same.