WIBTA if I exposed my uncle to the whole family?
I'm writing this whole I'm insanely stressed and also English is not my first language so please ignore all the mistakes lol.
I was 15, It was mother's day and I was watching my aunts and uncles kids while they were sleeping. My grandparents, father sister and uncle and aunt were in the other room. My aunts husband came to check up on me and the kids.... And to touch me as it turns out. He came and went for the rest of the evening, touched my ass, kissed me longer and longer every time, getting his toung tongue inside my mouth, asking me if I liked it and if I knew it was our little secret (can't believe he actually used these words lmao) until me my father and sister left.
Long story short, my parents found out later that year, they and my aunt had a talk, we made some rules, and decided to not tell my grandparents. After that I tried to just ignore it, even acted friendly with him.
Anyhooo, about four months ago I dropped out of uni. It was a whole thing, I was really stressed and really didn't have much energy to explain myself to anyone. But then my aunt found out. She started to text and call me every day. Obviously I didn't text her or call her back, so she had a wonderful idea to corner me in my own house by coming unannounced. When she came she tried to call me over to talk, I said I didn't want to and she called me childish. I just left after that. I actually thought that this is gonna be the end of it, but the next morning I saw a text from her husband, telling me that I'm acting like a child, explaining to me what I have to do with my life, and telling me that him and my aunt are keeping this big secret (me dropping out) from my grandparents. I was so done with everything I just showed the texts to my best friend and archived his chat
Now a few months have passed and I finally processed this whole situation, and I'm really pissed. I want to tell my grandparents, but I don't know I should bring this situation up, if it's worth it after five years. I am really tired of seeing him at every family gathering tho, and having to act like nothing happened.
So Reddit, would I be the asshole if I told my grandparents?