u/Dense_Condition_6630

I'm giving her a chance but I'm hurting a lot what do I do?

I have been with her for a decent while, but yesterday I discovered she has been cheating with a guy online. I told her that she has a week to prove there is still something in this relationship for me and that I could trust her again. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't believe she had any ill intentions but she still hurt me. She admitted she made a mistake and said sorry but I told her this is something she needs to fix. Am I doing the right thing? Is there anything else I should do? I feel so hurt and lost right now.

Edit: She is a good person I can promise you that, she just did that I don't know why. She is hurting as well but she is the one who messed up. I can tell you she genuinely wants my trust back. I understand that cheating is a horrible thing to do and don't support it, but she made a mistake and she regrets it. I want to give her a chance to show me she cares enough to repair what she has broken. If she doesn't I'll leave, but she is a good person she's shown me that she just needs time and support to fix her mistake. Don't get me wrong I am very upset as it went on far too long to an "accident" but it was a mistake. I'll keep you guys updated. Also since you are asking it was purely online, and I believe she was trying to love us both kinda like a poly thing idk. Still totally wrong though.

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u/Dense_Condition_6630 — 9 days ago