Schrödinger’s housing wish list
Hi everyone! Longtime YIMBY and lurker on this subreddit. I live in Montgomery County, MD. Last week, we had a fairly contentious county executive election where the key issue was affordability (surprise! The candidate considered the heir to the current NIMBY CEX won). I think it’s safe to say that the cost of living here in MoCo and across the DMV is unsustainably high.
This is especially the case with housing costs.
However, one aspect of this issue that both bewilders and yet fascinates me to no end is the disconnect between what people want and what actually needs to be done.
Here’s what I mean. One of my toxic hobbies is following local real estate channels on social media and oogling at the listings. Oftentimes, these videos are filled with the same few comments and variants of them: “that’s not worth X” or “That’s overpriced”. Mind you, this is for single-family homes. God have mercy on you if you venture onto posts about townhouses, where people reserve their worst scorn for. Some choice comments for these posts I’ve seen include “Any townhome over 500K is just waste, fraud and abuse” and perhaps tellingly: “I don’t want a half a million dollar town home. I want a single family home.” Still others bemoan the construction of new townhouses entirely, saying it should stop because “no one wants them” in some cases, saying there’s already too many people here. We’re full! It’s also not just older people saying this - it’s often people my age (I’m 31) and younger.
In some cases, the OP will respond asking these folks how much they think these houses are worth, receiving responses like “no more than $200k” or thereabouts. Sometimes they will try to explain this is just what the market is like right now, to blind eyes.
This attitude is something that I have seen among my friends and family members as well. I don’t mean to insult or demean them or our fellow residents. But it is quite shocking to me how many people can’t seem to connect the dots - housing is expensive because, despite all the issues we have here, we live in an overall highly desirable area with jobs, good schools, health care access, and so on. People want to live here! Consequently, when people can’t afford to live here, people leave, increasing the tax burden on those who remain, budget cuts, and so on, creating a negative feedback loop.
Other cities across the country (notably Austin) have shown us that you can lower housing costs by building more. It’s not rocket science. But there’s a tremendous unwillingness - a stunning lack of imagination even - from so many to entertain such a notion. Part of it might be cultural. So many grow up under the notion that accomplishing the American dream means having a big SFH with a yard and garage. Density is almost a swear word for many. Another reason might be similar to the concept of temporarily embarrassed millionaires - why advocate for building more apartment buildings, condos, and townhouses when you want a SFH?
The growing acceptance of YIMBY ideas shows there’s been progress made. Still, much work remains to be done. I’d be curious to hear from folks how we can overcome these barriers and help increase understanding of these issues.