(m) 18M from Vasai Road, considering paid sex for my first time due to sexual frustration — looking for genuine advice, safety tips, red flags, and real experiences
Hey, 18M here and I’m gonna be brutally honest because I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this.
I’ve been feeling sexually frustrated for a long time now, and at this point I feel pretty desperate to experience sex. I’m not talking about relationships or dating advice here — I mean the actual experience itself. The reality is that paid sex feels like the only option available to me right now.
Before anyone says “you’re probably too young-looking” or “they won’t take you seriously,” I don’t really look or sound underage. I’m 5'11, have a mature voice, and generally get perceived as older than my age. I’m also circumcised, if that matters in terms of comfort/sensitivity or hygiene for a first experience.
I’m from around Vasai Road, and I’ve heard about places near the bus depot area, including PRAVASI Lodge, where people say you can find prostitutes. I’m mainly asking if anyone here has actual experience around that area or knows what the situation is like. Is it legit, sketchy, scammy, unsafe, or something to completely avoid?
I’m not trying to get judged or lectured — I genuinely want practical advice from people who have experience with this. Has anyone here ever gone the paid route for their first time? What should I realistically expect? How do I avoid getting scammed, pressured, or put in a bad situation? What are the biggest red flags to watch out for?
Also, for people who’ve actually done this: was it worth it for a first experience, or did you regret it? Did it help get rid of the curiosity/desperation, or did it make things worse mentally?
I’m open to honest opinions, advice, or even “don’t do it and here’s why” — but preferably from people who’ve actually been in a similar situation rather than assumptions.