u/Dice_King4225

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Hyper sexuality a symptom of depression??

Im a male 28 who has been single after a long time. The effects of the past relationship still linger and Im basically on a healing journey. It has been a weird period for me because I got so used to talking to one person and getting to know people from scratch has been somewhat boring for me. Things went downhill when I started to feel depressed and even suicidal. I spoke to my therapist who had been very helpful at the time. The biggest mistake I made was going out and alcohol. I been an avid gym rat and typically watch what I eat and drink but over the last 4 months I've seen a side of me that I am ashamed of.

I got lost in the female attention and it was addictive. Women approach me where ever I go married or single young or old but I never acted on it until now. At some point I had no self control and I did things I am ashamed of. Hyper sexuality clouded my vision and I found myself attracting hyper sexual women. All the women would talk to me about was sex and I entertained them. I got with so many women at some point I had to actually go MIA because all the wanted was sex and It actually affected my mental health. I am now at a point where I cant take women seriously because of the things I have done. I started to feel like I literal prostitute. And some men will comment and say things like "suffering from success" but my G when Lust takes over you, it's a beast that has slayed many. I would skip my lunch breaks for sex and sometimes even get days off. I got with married women, engaged women and women in relationships and yeah it's really messing with my head because I considered myself a good guy now I cant even look in the mirror. I don't even believe in marriage anymore.

To any man or woman dealing with hyper sexuality, how have you dealt with it??

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u/Dice_King4225 — 3 days ago