u/DifferenceThis6496

it's not a secret that different people process music differently. i am wondering how other ADHDers perceive it 👀

for example, i solely focus on music itself, the melody, the flow, the rhythm. I almost dont care about the lyrics.

but im looking for songs with a specific "structure"

considering im mostly listening to metal, here is an example - Linkin Park "Given Up"

the song starts and till the first chorus it is "growing" in intensity and emotions. then after the second verse there is a moment of "peak" emotions. and THAT is that im looking in a song. it makes me physically comfortable in some way

yes, it is not easy to find songs i enjoy, but those i find i can listen 24/7 on repeat

curious to see what you guys focus on, how you find your "comfort" songs

p.s. if you have any recommendations based on what i described - be my guest 💜

hi all, wanted to ask a few questions as i already bought 2 cups and yet cannot say i love using them

the first one was by mooncup. but i immediately hated it. the rubber was too stiff and wearing it was giving me physical discomfort

so after some research i bought one from saalt. now that one felt better as the rubber is so much softer.

however, with both cups i was struggling to get them out. when inserting i placed them fairly low in the cervix bearing in mind that i would need to get them out later.

in both cases after a few hours the cups moved so high up that i barely managed to extract them.

i am sick and tired of pads and tampons and the wastage they create (i understand that even with a cup i may need to have a few pads to protect from leaks, but it still will be less waste in the end of the day).

so my questions are:

1. is it normal that a cup moves up?

2. can my cervix be too long for a cup? are there options for people like me?

3. if anyone faced similar problems, how do you deal with them? do you have a recommendation on a cup?

side note - i am seeing a gynecologist in a month, and will definitely ask about my cervix size. perhaps they can recommend something as well

thank you all in advance 💜