u/Different-Leg-3561

I´m just very curious and I wanna understand. If your gay spouse feels attraction towards the same gender and not towards yours, how could he or she was even able to gotten involved in any sexual activities with you? Did he or she enjoyed it? Or pretended he does? Did you feel your sex life is bad, but considered it more like r/deadbedrooms thing? Or you didn´t even notice? And after his coming out, did you talk about it and did he or she get the chance to explain how it felt for them?

Thank you so much for honestly sharing these intimate and sensitive matters, and I wish you lots of strength!