My GF, F21 and I, M23, are in a situation about one of us going on a trip
She was invited on a trip to go bar hopping in Nashville for her friend’s 21st with her 2 best friends and her best friend’s boyfriend. Well, her best friend’s bf is bringing 4-5 of his friends too, and one of them that might be going is someone my GF had history with. So my gf calls me and tells me, obviously I’m upset and told her I’m not messing with all that. She says she is going anyways because she wants to. She says she wants to compromise but she is also going regardless. I’m just uncomfortable with my gf staying overnight somewhere when guys and alcohol are involved, plus you mix in one of them that might be going is someone she had history with. Reddit, please work your magic and help us out, what should we do or talk about to make our relationship work? because her going is really uncomfortable for me