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Today I’m saying goodbye to my cat. I got him is two years old and now he’s 15. Why is it so hard to say goodbye? Will ever see him again? This is the seventh pet. I’ve had to say goodbye to. It’s never been easy. I keep telling myself I can’t do this again yet. I still open my heart to another pet. I have seven holes in my heart right now. Vet is coming to my house at 5 o’clock. It’s twice as expensive is going to the vet, but he deserves not to be stressed out. Going to Vet on his last day. I’ve been spending time with him privately, stroking him and talking to him softly, reminding me how wonderful he was and how much love he gave me please hold your animals tight you never know when it’s the last day.

My sister is married to somebody with borderline personality disorder. Being around him is like walking on eggshells. I feel very uncomfortable not knowing if I will say something that’s going to trigger anger. I’ve tried for over 20 years to behave in a way that doesn’t make him angry. My sister insists that we have a relationship if I wanna spend time with her alone. She has now gone no contact with me because after a text exchange checking on his health after going into the hospital, he told me to fuck off and leave me alone and I just can’t come back from this. It was so rude because the text I sent was very kind saying that we’re family we’re here for you. I can’t deal with his erratic behavior anymore. Any advice? i’ve left the door open to have a relationship with her, but I don’t think she’s strong enough to tell him she wants to have a relationship with him and her family.

It’s never easy to say goodbye

My sister is married to somebody with borderline personality disorder