u/Difficult-Meal-374

I've been with other men, including a couple of them multiple times. It's always been just casual - typically both of us are romantically into women. And then I almost inevitably get ghosted or the guy obviously loses interest. Why is that? I'd love to have a bi regular partner and don't understand what the hang up is. It's not like either of us are looking for a relationship! Curious for perspectives here.