u/DifficultSpeed9636

Constant Degradation

I'm in a situation where I'm relatively new in the office -- remote for a while, but they wanted me to move to come in everyday. Let me tell you, being in the office versus being at home working remotely is night and day. I knew remotely something was up in the office, but it is a SCENE! The manager/director is a full blown terror. She's awful to me on a daily basis (when she's not on a 2 week vacation to Greece - for real). Says I should know stuff that she actively withheld. Bad mouths me behind my back (the other employees tell me about it). And she's rude as hell. Talks over me, gaslights me, and files formal unfounded complaints about me. One colleague was actually nice to me for a hot second and I almost cried because I'm holding it all in. Most other co-workers are afraid to be seen talking to me because of this manager/director. and she has skip level boss wrapped around her finger. It's a nightmare. And I feel like everyone is in on it, like I barely have allies or just normal decent people to talk to. I'm literally in my office avoiding everyone because it's clear I'm radioactive. They all eat lunch right outside my office and don't say anything to me. They get quiet when I walk by. It's ridiculous. I know better, I know I should leave, but it's just so demoralizing.

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u/DifficultSpeed9636 — 6 hours ago